hit with truth and reality today

So I get home today after being at my aunts all day yesterday, and I call my dad to let him know that I was home. We start to talk and he tells me that my mother is coming over to the house tonight to look what crap she has to get out of our house so she can figure out how big of a uhaul she needed to rent. Well I knew that it was not going to be a great time but I did not expect it to be this bad when she did come over. But I shrugged it off and went to bible study(which was really good)! So I get home get a shower and wait for my mother to get here and for the fun to start(oh boy). Then my sister texted me asking if I was going to be here cause she was coming too. So that made it better that she was going to come too but still did not make it any better for what was to come of this meeting. So my sister gets here and we are talking on my front porch cause I was sitting outside thinking bout bunch of things. Few minutes later my mother got here. She came and said hey to me then wanted to go inside and get started. Well I went and got my dad and told him that they were here. So while he walked around with my mother my sister showed me how to burn songs from limewire to a cd(never did it before). After she did that she tryed to figure out how to get my webcam to work(no luck). After my dad and mother finished with the basement they came back up stairs and thats when all the fun happened. My mom got overwhelmed with all the crap she had at our house that she had to get. So they began to argue just like the old days that I have tried so hard to move on from and forget as much as I could. Well this did no good to that. All the things I tried to forget came rushing back to me. Then my dad decided to tell her about the divorce papers he had gotten together for her to sign. my mom and dad have been separated for six years four of them required by law the rest because my parents never really got a long they only stayed together because my dad did not want to put my sister and I through that when we were to young to realize why they were doing it. Then things really got heated. My mom started cursing and yelling at my father. Then they came into the family room where my sister and I were sitting. So as soon as that happened I told my sister I can not stay in here and watch and listen to this. So we went outside and let them do what they needed to get done. But of course my mother was yelling so loud that we could still here what she was saying so it helped some but not completely. So after a while my mother came outside crying and got into her car and sped off. My sister stayed with me for a little while because she did not want to have to deal with my mother after that and she wanted to stay with me for a little so I could calm down as well. So after a while my dad came outside while me and my sister where shooting hoops together, but he did not stay because of the music we had on(rap). So after that we both went in and then my dad started to talk to us then my mother called the house phone and my sister picked it up(thankfully) and talked to her. when that was finally over the three of us talked about what happened and everything. needless to say she got mad at all the things she had to get and did not want to get them all then the divorce papers. But with my mother she blows things way out of proportion and gets really mad fast. Then I find out that she is wanting to come over on the 6th to start packing it all up. which the 6th is my b-day so that means that I get to sit home all day cause I cant go do anything with my father cause he cant leave the house with her here. I am really mad that she is doing this cause she knows that my dad will not leave her here alone and that its my b-day. So she is trying to ruin everything for me. I can not even go out and celebrate my 18th b-day. I just love the crap I get.